The family structure in India is very special and traditionally structured. Their families often consist of an entire line of family members, each with his/herown role in the family.
Children are cherished and considered to be gifts from God. The family structure in India is typical. There are many wedding customs which have to be strongly followed by everyone. Religion, caste, traditional practices, and regional differences influence family structures. Indians are more emotionally attached to the members of their family.
The Indian family is one of the best examples of the joint family.
It is formed by brothers, their spouses, and children. There is a “joint ideal” in Indian society. Any given family will actually move through a whole sequence: nuclear, 3-generation extended, then (when the grandparents die) a joint family.
Once the children approach maturity, the joint family will divide property, separate from each other, and become a number of separate nuclear families who will then start the process all over again.
The family unit starts off as a nuclear family.
As time passes, the daughters move out, while the sons remain as their wives move in and bear children to form an extended patrilocal 3-generation household.
“Dada” is the head of the 3-generation unit and his wife, “Dadi,” is in charge of coordinating the activities of all her daughters-in-law and grandchildren. Sons work under their father’s direction and must turn over all their income to him. This responsibility applies even to income earned outside of the household.
Upon Dada’s death, land and other property will remain jointly held by all the sons. The oldest son will assume the role of household head but does not own the household’s property.
When the brother’s own children reach the age of marriage, the joint family will break apart into family units. All property will be equally divided, and they will each go on to build their new nuclear unit with their wives and children. If Dadi is still alive, she will get a share of the property and will move in with one of her sons.
These nuclear families, with the sons bringing wives in and the daughters marrying and moving out, quickly become 3-generational families again, with the parents becoming the new Dada and Dadi.
However, India population on the other hand, is booming at a very fast rate, with the population growing at a present rate of 1.8%.
In 1951 India implemented a national family planning program to help slow their booming population. In the year 2000, India’s one billionth baby was born making the country home for one sixth of the entire population of the world. With the current rate of growth, India’s one billion people will double to two billion by the year 2040.
One major population problem in India is families preferences for boys over girls. Because of India’s dowry system, which is now officially outlawed but still takes place, it is expensive to raise girls. Also when a girl marries she becomes part of her husband’s family and contributes nothing further to her parent’s future welfare. One common Indian proverb relates, “raising girls is like watering someone else’s lawn. Hence, it can be clearly seen that the preference for boys over girls is clearly one of the reasons for families in India to continue to try again and again until they get a boy.
With a large percentage of people India trapped in extreme poverty, having too many children often times leads to increasing financial burden on the families. In some cases, the family planning policies issued by the government often does not reach out to the majority, who are living in slums and run down communities that do not have access to televisions and electricity.
In Singapore, such a tradition by some families of preference of boys over girls is evident as well. But our country’s population story is entirely opposite of India’s. While India is trying hard to do whatever they can to curb population growth, Singapore on the other hand, is doing all we can to encourage population growth. Some reasons why Singaporeans may not want to have babies includes the higher cost of living, more women being career-orientated and the burden of taking care of a child which not many Singaporeans can handle. The list goes on, but one thing is for sure. As much as Singapore wants to increase our population size, control is still needed. If not, the same situation happening in India can happen to us as well.
Acknowledgements:
http://www.faculty.fairfield.edu/faculty/hodgson/Courses/so142/India/india.htm
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/family-life-in-india.html
http://www.d.umn.edu/~lars1521/India&birthcontrol.htm